Im and email help on dating services?

i can't im or receive emails and don't know how to get to profile mail either anyone help?

Im and email help on dating services?
That's the trick they use to get you to pay for their services. A total ripoff I think. Let you test the water, see a bunch of hot chicks, but then you cannot talk to them. Once you pay to email and im only ugly girls show up. Just go to your local bar/church/library etc. and do it the old fashion way.